The timeless sitcom The Golden Girls continues to charm audiences decades after its original run from 1985 to 1992. Behind the laughter, there were touching stories, challenges, and camaraderie that made the show unforgettable. Stan Zimmerman, a writer for the show’s first season, shared some heartfelt and intriguing behind-the-scenes details about the iconic series.
Estelle Getty’s Compassionate Nature
While Estelle Getty’s portrayal of Sophia Petrillo is remembered for her witty one-liners, Zimmerman recalls her as warm and maternal off-screen. She demonstrated profound kindness when she learned Zimmerman and his writing partner were gay—a fact they were advised to keep secret in the workplace during the 1980s. Estelle assured them, “Your secret is safe with me,” showing her unwavering support and allyship.
Getty, who was younger than her co-stars Bea Arthur and Betty White, underwent significant makeup to appear older for her role. Between seasons, after a facelift, the makeup team humorously remarked that their job had gotten harder!
Battles with Anxiety and Early Dementia
Estelle faced personal challenges during the show. Zimmerman revealed that her anxiety about performing before a live audience often left her nervous and forgetful of lines. In later years, early-onset dementia compounded these struggles. The cast and crew implemented creative strategies to help her, such as writing lines on her hands or using cue cards.
Despite these challenges, Getty’s comedic timing remained impeccable. “Her lines were always home runs,” Zimmerman said, emphasizing her professionalism and talent.
Betty White’s Unexpected Role
Zimmerman’s initial impression of Betty White was mixed. He recalled moments during tapings when White joked with the audience about Getty forgetting lines, which felt harsh at the time. Reflecting later, he realized White may have been redirecting the audience’s attention to give Getty time to recover.
Zimmerman also touched on the rumored tension between Bea Arthur and Betty White, which stemmed from their different acting styles. While Bea, a seasoned stage actor, valued staying in character, Betty’s lighthearted interactions during breaks may have clashed with Bea’s approach. Despite this, their on-screen chemistry remained undeniable.
Acknowledging Writers
Unlike many actors, the Golden Girls stars regularly credited the show’s writers during interviews. Zimmerman expressed deep gratitude for this rare acknowledgment, which highlighted the collaborative effort behind the sitcom’s success.
No Ad-Libs—Just Perfect Script Execution
Contrary to popular belief, the actresses did not improvise their lines. Every word, comma, and pause was meticulously scripted. Zimmerman noted that in the first season, the cast delivered the script exactly as written, showcasing their respect for the writers’ craft.
Legacy Beyond the Show
Zimmerman’s connection to the Golden Girls and other iconic shows is chronicled in his book, The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore. Today, he continues to share powerful stories, including his play Right Before I Go, inspired by the loss of a close friend to suicide.
The Golden Girls remains unparalleled, not only for its humor and heart but also for the resilience and warmth of its cast and creators. These behind-the-scenes stories deepen the appreciation for a show that has stood the test of time. Share this with fellow fans who love the show as much as the rest of the world still does!